We often unconsciously create reality. If you do not like that reality, immediately ask yourself these two clarifying questions:
1. Is it possible that this unwanted reality, in some way, reflects
your actual desire(s)?
2. Are there any benefits or advantages that this seemingly
unwanted reality brings to your being?
The creation of this reality finds its birth in a reason that you have forgotten. Even if it's an unwanted reality - such as sickness, suffering, sadness or struggle - there is a significant reason for its creation. You must search within to discover this hidden reason in your life. By doing so, you can learn from that reason and positively reorder your reality.
—excerpt from Dr.Hsu lectured for Nature of Personal Reality book study